Self Responsibility: Key Laws of Grace
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Self Responsibility: Be you own Guru
Self Responsibility is a core Law of Grace, it is a base multiplier in the math of Enlightenment that will determine how fast or slow you awaken. It tough, ad you have to be relentless. this is why I suggest a few key strategies to help.
1. Presence Journal
2. Coaching / mentoring
Self responsibility means you are 100% responsible for your own Enlightenment. Only you and your choice of your actions, attention placement and choices of activities will bring you Awakening.
Emotions and reactions: Do you own your emotions? Do you react when emotions arise? Nobody can make you feel a certain way. Watch unconscious people, they will always blame another for their feeling state. They will use emotional blackmail to bend another person to do something. To take responsibility means any feeling state that arises is 100% yours, and yours only. This helps develop your Emotional Intelligence. This is where you realise you need to be the owner, thus responsible for any emotion that arises.
Buying into the collective mind set: As your awareness deepens you will notice the subtle of collective, family and groups patterns. Do you play into them? The point with this is to see it, be responsible that you can be true to your own ‘truth’ (regardless of what that is) and then decide do I play that game or not. It is then up to you do you speak up or go with the ‘flow’ of the other or others but remain Present inside as to the reasons for you choices consciously. a simple example is do you walk across the empty road when the crossing light is red? You may get fines for jay walking is seen by law enforcement.
Self Responsibility includes
Discipleship to a Guru or teacher: Many Gurus and some teacher weaken personal responsibility by saying hand over you authority to me. If Guru says something then it is a fact. Please keep your common sense. Only you are responsib;le for you actions, attention and outcomes. If the Guru is Grace based (and there are some) that does not mean that they personally can decide if God bestows Grace on you or not. That is a violation of Free will. This is often how a manipulative teacher can set up a cult and manipulate.
If the Guru of teacher is genuinely Enlightened their Presence will assist – this is called “Good Company” and the dynamics of this are in the Laws of Grace online courses and mentoring / coaching only at this stage. More of this topic is also covered in the page Why a Mentor not a Guru.
Self Responsibility is NOT
Can you imagine how different life would be after a decade of non-stop Presence? I entered Abiding Awakening, the place where Presence has never left me, at the end of 2007 which is over 11 years ago. In that time my Presence, peace, joy and has deepened significantly. I’ve acutely observed what factors that make this journey work or fail.
I’ve researched with myself and others what habits, beliefs, spiritual myths, incorrect teachings and other factors that stop people progressing when it could be a lot easier and faster.
In this video I answer that challenging question of ‘Who Am I’ and who is the chooser, who is the owner.
The pain-body is will be dispatched within 18 months approximately. After that it’s just a matter of those Laws of Grace being implemented and kicking on with practice.
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(1) 2 to 4 years* is to the mid non-Abiding phase of Awakening as defined in the Awakening defined page. This is an Adyashanti definition based on the stability of your capacity to be consistent in you holding of Presence.
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